Stress anyone?

Stress anyone?
Yesterday. I didn't even want to share anything, even though I tend to burst at the seems with information I want to share, THEN I got out of my head, into my body and realized what was on my heart to share. Stress.

No, no I do not want to share stress with you but rather what I tend to do when I'm feeling those seriously overwhelming feelings and just want to zone the f*ck out hardcore. Now let's not get carried away and pretend that I never zone out, whether that's with a glass of wine, turning on a romcom I've seen about 100 times (allllll about watching all the happiness🥰) or playing ridiculous phone games but I work to keep that to a minimum and take the time to think about why it is I'm feeling that way in the first place. Here are some helpful tips for when you might find yourself in this space. 👇

🎶Put on a playlist: I have different playlists saved on Spotify for my different moods, some to pump me up, some to relax me and get in that zone and others to bring me straight back to a particular time in my life where I might have felt things were easier (hindsight hehe)

🌳🌴Get outside: If someone told me to get outside and it was -50 like that year I lived in Chicago I'd have some choice words to say to them, but let's assume it's not that cold, getting outside can be really powerful for so many reasons. Nature heals.

🌹Oil up: I put my oils on in the morning as my set of armor to protect my energy, calm my emotions and get ready to rock that day. However, when some of those stressful thoughts/feelings come into play I apply again; Believe oil (a mix of Idaho Blue Spruce, Idaho Balsam Fir, Frankincense, Bergamot, Coriander, Ylang Ylang and Geranium), Valor (a mix of Black spruce, blue tansy, Frankincense and Geranium), Lavender (calm in a bottle) or Frankincense. Honestly there are more but let's keep it simple.

🏃‍♀️🧘Get in movement: Researchers in Denmark found that people who exercise two hours a week—that's 17 minutes a day!—are 61 percent less likely to feel stressed out. "People who exercise prior to stressful encounters report lower spikes in blood pressure during the events because their blood vessels are relaxed," says Rod Dishman, Ph.D., a professor of exercise science at the University of Georgia. And the talk around endorphin highs is a popular one for a reason!

💖Message a friend: I don't know about you but when I speak to some of my friends I feel uplifted and happier then before I called them. That's what friends are for! And in a study at the University of Tokyo, researchers found that rats given an electric shock had lower body temperatures and stress hormone levels when they were accompanied by another rat that didn't get zapped. The rats that were shocked in solitary went crazy. So, sign me up for some zapping with a friend🤣

Monday. What kind of day is it for you?

Monday. What kind of day is it for you?
“I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it.” – Pablo Picasso🎨

I've written on Mondays before about how I've re-framed my feelings about them. I used to dread them, like Sundays brought me deep into the depressive hole. Now, to be fair, I was working jobs I didn't like, wasn't sure where I wanted my life to go and living a life that wasn't authentic to myself-I just didn't know all of that yet. I also didn't know that there were people out there that enjoyed Mondays, or really they enjoyed their days in general. It's not that everything was always rainbows and sunshine but the overall drum of happiness was there.

So when this quote appeared in my inbox this morning, I thought, yes.

I'm challenged by my business, and often get caught up in that perfectionist mindset of, can't submit this, or share this, or reach out to someone that needs help because maybe I don't know everything there is to know and shouldn't move forward. Well if Picasso says to just do it, I'm going to go ahead and do the scary things that I cannot do so that I may learn how to do them.

Anyone else feel this in their lives at some time? Throw me a 💖if you get this!

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