Let’s clear up a common misconception: many moms are led to believe that gut health is something you only need to worry about when you're older or dealing with specific health conditions. But the truth is, your gut health is crucial—especially after having a baby.
Your body has just gone through a major transformation, and while you’re busy caring for your newborn, you also need to care for yourself. Gut health plays a massive role in how you recover, your energy levels, and even your mental health postpartum.
Why Gut Health Matters After Birth
- Hormone Balance After giving birth, your hormones are all over the place. Your gut helps to regulate hormone levels, which is key to balancing mood swings, reducing anxiety, and helping you feel more like yourself again. A happy gut can lead to a happier, more balanced you.
- Energy Levels If you’re feeling drained, sluggish, or just not as energized as you’d like to be, your gut health might be partly to blame. The bacteria in your gut influence how well your body absorbs nutrients from food, so if your gut isn’t functioning at its best, you may not be getting all the benefits from what you’re eating. A healthy gut helps you absorb nutrients more efficiently, giving you the energy you need to keep up with your little one.
- Boosting Your Immune System Your immune system is already under stress postpartum, and with a newborn in the house, germs are inevitable. But did you know that a huge part of your immune system is located in your gut? By nourishing your gut with probiotics and fiber-rich foods, you can help strengthen your immune system and better protect yourself from getting sick—something every new mom could use!
- Reducing Postpartum Bloating Feeling bloated and uncomfortable after birth? It could be your gut’s way of telling you it needs some extra care. When your gut bacteria are out of balance, it can lead to gas, bloating, and digestive discomfort. Incorporating gut-friendly foods like fermented veggies, yogurt, and prebiotic-rich foods can help restore balance and reduce bloating.
How to Show Your Gut Some Love
- Eat more fermented foods like yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut, and kimchi. These are packed with probiotics, which help increase the good bacteria in your gut.
- Add fiber to your diet through fruits, veggies, and whole grains. Fiber is essential for feeding the good bacteria in your gut and keeping things moving smoothly.
- Stay hydrated! Water is key for digestion and keeping your gut functioning well.
So, if you’ve been feeling off, bloated, or just not like yourself after giving birth, don’t ignore your gut health. Taking care of it now can make a world of difference in your recovery, energy levels, and overall well-being.
Show your gut some love—you deserve it!
When I first heard that breastfeeding could help with weight loss, I was all in. The idea of feeding my baby and shedding those extra pounds at the same time? Sign me up! But as it turns out, that wasn’t my reality—and it’s not for many women.
For some lucky mamas, breastfeeding does help them slim down, but for others (like me), it seems to do the opposite. In fact, breastfeeding can actually make it harder to lose weight. I was honestly surprised to learn that up to 50% of women either don’t lose weight or even gain weight while breastfeeding. So if you’ve been feeling frustrated because the baby weight isn’t melting off like you thought it would, trust me, you’re not alone.
The reason behind this isn’t talked about nearly enough.
One major culprit? Prolactin, a hormone your body produces to help with milk production.
While prolactin is a breastfeeding superhero, it can also slow down your metabolism. It signals your body to hold onto fat as a way to protect milk production. Your body is basically saying, “Hey, we need these fat reserves to make sure we can feed the baby!”
In those early months, your body is in full-on survival mode, and part of that means hanging on to fat to support milk production. It’s frustrating when you’re expecting breastfeeding to be the magic fix for postpartum weight loss, but it’s just one of those things that doesn't happen for everyone.
So, if you’re in the same boat, don’t beat yourself up. You’re doing an amazing thing for your baby by breastfeeding, and it’s okay if the baby weight is sticking around longer than you expected. This is one of those postpartum surprises that no one really talks about—but should!
Weight loss can look different for everyone, and it’s important to give yourself grace during this time. Your body is working hard to feed your little one, and that’s no small feat. Whether breastfeeding helps you lose weight or not, what matters most is that you’re nourishing your baby and yourself.
And remember, this phase won’t last forever. Be patient with your body, embrace the journey, and know that you’re doing an incredible job!
Sleep can feel like a distant memory once you become a mom, right? Between night feedings, bedtime routines, and the mental load of juggling everything, getting a good night’s sleep is easier said than done. It’s like you’re always “on,” even when the rest of the house is quiet. The challenge is real!
But here’s the thing—sleep is everything when it comes to surviving and thriving through motherhood. It’s key to your patience, your energy, and your overall well-being. Without it, the days can feel longer, the tantrums harder, and the mental load heavier. I totally get it.
Using essential oils has been a gentle, natural way to bring more calm and relaxation into my life, especially when sleep feels out of reach. Here are a few of my go-to oils that have helped me (and countless other moms) unwind and get a better night's rest:
🌸 Lavender
It’s the classic, go-to oil for sleep and relaxation and for good reason! The scent of lavender can help soothe your mind and body after a hectic day of mom life. You can diffuse it, add a few drops to your bath, or even mix it with water to create a calming pillow spray. Lavender is all about creating a peaceful vibe that helps you drift off.
🌱 Frankincense
Frankincense might sound fancy, but it’s a real powerhouse when it comes to grounding your mind and body. This oil has calming properties that are perfect for winding down at the end of the day. I love mixing it with a carrier oil (like coconut or jojoba) and applying it to my wrists or temples before bed. It feels like a little moment of self-care that helps me release the tension from the day.
⭐️ Believe Oil
Believe oil is one of my personal favorites, especially when it comes to mental health. Motherhood can be so rewarding, but let’s be real; it’s also tough. There’s a lot more open conversation around postpartum mental health now than there used to be, which is amazing. I apply Believe oil when I need a boost, and it always brings me a sense of joy and calm, like I’m tapping into the best version of myself.
If you’re looking for the ultimate sleep blend, try combining lavender and frankincense in your diffuser before bed. The two scents together create the perfect balance of relaxation and grounding energy.
Motherhood is busy, and sleep can feel elusive, but prioritizing rest is so important. You deserve it, and trust me, getting good sleep will make all the difference in how you show up for yourself and your family.
How many times have you stood in front of the fridge, waiting for dinner inspiration to hit, only to give up and call for takeout? It’s one of those “quick fixes” that feels like it’s solving the problem in the moment but usually just adds to the chaos. Enter meal planning—your not-so-secret weapon to cutting down on stress and keeping your family on track, especially with protein-packed meals.
We've all been there: that dreaded “What’s for dinner?” moment. It's stressful and draining, especially after a long day. But with meal planning, you have a game plan in place. No more last-minute pizza orders or throwing together random snacks and calling it dinner. Instead, you're serving balanced, protein-packed meals that keep everyone full and ready to handle whatever life throws at them.
Here’s why protein is the real MVP in meal planning: It keeps you satisfied longer, helps stabilize blood sugar, and keeps those mid-afternoon energy crashes at bay. Plus, protein helps with muscle repair and even boosts your metabolism. So, while you’re tackling everything on your to-do list, your body is getting the fuel it needs to keep going strong.
The real magic of meal planning? It takes the guesswork out of your evenings. Studies show that consistent meal planning leads to healthier food choices and less stress. When you already know what’s for dinner, you free up your mental space for more important things—like actually enjoying time with your family instead of scrambling in the kitchen.
So, if you’re ready to say goodbye to the daily dinner drama and simplify your life, grab a copy of my Easy Protein Recipes for Busy Families cookbook here. It's packed with easy, delicious meals that will keep your family happy and your stress levels low. Let meal planning be the solution that saves your sanity.
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As much as we wish we could snap back to feeling 100% overnight, the truth is, your body just went through a lot and recovery takes time. From hormones balancing out to your body adjusting physically, postpartum healing is a journey. It’s not something we can (or should!) rush through.
I get it.... you’re probably feeling the pressure to “bounce back” and get back to your pre-baby self. Whether it’s your energy, your body, or even your mindset, there’s this invisible (and sometimes very visible) expectation to hurry up and recover.
But let’s stop and think about what your body has just accomplished. You’ve just grown and brought life into the world. That’s no small feat, and it’s going to take some time for your body to adjust to this new chapter.
The Hormonal Rollercoaster
If you’re feeling all over the place emotionally, you’re not alone. After giving birth, your hormones are trying to recalibrate. This hormonal shift can bring on a whirlwind of emotions—from happy to tears to overwhelm—all within the span of an hour. Be kind to yourself through this transition. It’s totally normal to feel this way, and the last thing you need is to feel guilty about it.
Physical Recovery
Beyond the emotional rollercoaster, your body is healing physically. Whether you had a vaginal delivery or a c-section, your body is working hard to repair itself. From healing tissues to regaining strength, this doesn’t happen overnight. Give yourself permission to rest, listen to your body, and not feel like you need to be doing all the things just yet.
Give Yourself Grace
The most important thing you can do during this time is to give yourself grace. Healing is not linear, and it looks different for everyone. Some days you might feel like you’re on top of the world, and other days, even brushing your teeth feels like a win. And that’s okay. Take it one day at a time, and remind yourself that you’re doing amazing.
Your body is incredible for what it’s just done, and it deserves all the love and patience in the world. Recovery is not a race, and there’s no gold medal for who heals the fastest. What’s most important is taking care of yourself so you can be the best version of you—for both yourself and your new little one.
Take your time, mama. You’ve got this.
