Did you know that sometimes interventions during labor can lead to more risks? This was one of the biggest factors in my decision to have a home birth. I didn’t want to find myself in a situation where I had to fight for the kind of birth experience I wanted. Instead, I wanted a calm, peaceful environment where my birth could flow naturally, surrounded by supportive, loving women (and, of course, my husband).
Now, before I go further, let me say this: I know women who have had absolutely beautiful hospital births. Their experiences were filled with attentive care and respect for their choices. But I also know women who, post-birth, have expressed that something felt off—like their voices weren’t heard, or they didn’t feel like they could or should express their preferences.
It’s not uncommon. Hospitals often have protocols to follow, and while those policies can save lives in emergencies, they can sometimes lead to interventions that cascade into more risks. For example:
- Pitocin Use. While Pitocin can help speed up labor, it can also lead to stronger, more painful contractions, which may increase the likelihood of needing an epidural.
- Epidurals. While they’re a godsend for pain relief, epidurals can sometimes slow labor, leading to additional interventions like assisted delivery (forceps or vacuum) or even a cesarean.
- Continuous Monitoring. While it’s important to ensure baby is safe, being tethered to monitors can limit movement, which can actually help labor progress more smoothly.
For me, avoiding this domino effect of interventions was key. I wanted to trust my body, my baby, and the natural process of birth as much as possible. At home, I felt in control. I could move freely, eat if I wanted to, and labor in a space that felt completely safe. The midwives by my side were there to support, not dictate.
That said, I recognize that home birth isn’t for everyone. And it shouldn’t be—there are so many factors that go into making the best decision for you and your baby. My advice? Educate yourself. Learn about the potential risks and benefits of interventions, so that whatever birth setting you choose, you feel empowered to advocate for the experience you want.
Birth is a transformative moment, and every woman deserves to feel respected, heard, and supported—no matter where or how it happens.
Oh, but it absolutely does.
I used to think my thoughts were just... thoughts. Little whispers in my head that I tried to keep mostly positive, but honestly, I didn’t pay them much attention. Then, I learned just how powerful they really are—and how much they shape not just my emotions, but my physical health, too.
Your mindset is a game-changer. It’s not just a motivational quote on a coffee mug—it’s science. Studies show that your thoughts can literally influence your gut health, mental health, and overall well-being. If that sounds a little out there, take a look at Joe Dispenza’s work on mindset and healing. He dives deep into how beliefs and emotions can affect the body on a cellular level.
Here’s why this matters:
Your Mindset Affects Your Stress Response. When you’re stuck in a negative thought loop, your body doesn’t know the difference between a real threat (like a lion chasing you) and an imagined one (like worrying about a meeting). This keeps you in fight-or-flight mode, which wreaks havoc on your hormones and immune system.
Your Beliefs Shape Your Habits. If you believe you’re “too busy” or “not disciplined,” you’ll act accordingly. On the flip side, if you believe you can make small changes toward a healthier life, you’ll start noticing opportunities to do just that.
Your Thoughts Influence Healing. Research has shown that optimistic patients recover faster from surgery, and people who practice mindfulness often report fewer symptoms of chronic conditions. Belief isn’t a cure-all, but it’s a major piece of the puzzle.
So, if you’re rolling your eyes thinking, It’s not that deep, I get it. I was there, too. But the more I paid attention to what I was feeding my mind, the more I saw changes—not just in my mood, but in how my body felt.
Here’s my challenge for you: start small. Notice your thoughts. When a negative one pops up, ask yourself, Is this really true? Then flip it. Because what you believe doesn’t just stay in your head—it shows up in your life, your health, and even your happiness.
Before having a baby, your mind will likely race with all the “essentials” you think you’ll need. Do babies need shoes? (Nope! Their tiny toes are just for show at this point.) Will you need one of those donut pillows to sit on after labor? (For me, not at all—those things were not the lifesaver I imagined.) Should you plan on a home food delivery service? (Not if you have a partner who meal-preps like a champ. Shoutout to my husband for filling the freezer with meals that were lifesaving when sleep was nonexistent!)
But there’s one thing that often flies under the radar for expecting moms: how you’re going to recover and balance your hormones after giving birth.
Let’s be real: postpartum recovery isn’t just about catching up on sleep (though, yes, please). Your body has gone through an incredible, life-altering event. Blood loss, healing tissues, and hormone fluctuations are part of the journey. Focusing on the right foods during this time can make a world of difference.
Here are a few nutrient-packed powerhouses to keep on your radar:
- Salmon: Packed with omega-3 fatty acids, salmon helps fight postpartum blues and supports your brain (which needs all the love it can get during those foggy newborn days).
- Leafy Greens (Spinach, Kale): These are rich in iron, calcium, and magnesium—key nutrients for rebuilding strength, aiding in milk production, and replenishing what your body has lost.
- Eggs: A simple, versatile food full of protein, choline, and vitamin D to help with healing and energy.
- These foods don’t just taste great; they work hard to help your body bounce back. They’re like little cheerleaders for your hormones, energy levels, and overall healing.
So, while you’re preparing for the arrival of your little one—stocking up on diapers and cozy onesies—don’t forget to think about you, mama. Your recovery matters.
Ever feel like taking care of yourself always ends up at the bottom of the list? Between chasing toddlers around the house, constant diaper changes, and squeezing in work during nap time, it’s easy to let your health slide. You might think, "I’ll get to me later." But here's the truth I’ve learned: gut health is everything. And it doesn't have to be complicated.
I used to feel like I was constantly running on empty—exhausted, foggy, and short-tempered. You know the feeling, right? That overwhelming tiredness that just makes everything harder. I felt like I wasn't showing up as the best version of myself, either for my family or my business. But after I started focusing on simple, nourishing foods and supporting my gut health, I noticed a huge difference. I had more energy, felt clearer, and, honestly, was way more patient.
Here’s the thing—prioritizing your gut doesn’t mean overhauling your entire life. It’s all about small, manageable changes that fit into your busy mom life. I want to share three super easy, gut-friendly tips that have worked wonders for me, and I bet they’ll help you too.
1. Start your day with warm lemon water
Before the day even gets crazy, start with a little something just for you. Warm lemon water helps with digestion and can set a calm tone for the day. It’s like a mini reset button before all the chaos kicks in.
2. Swap one processed snack for a gut-boosting option
I get it. Grabbing something quick is necessary when you’re juggling a hundred things at once. But small swaps can make a big impact. Try something like apple slices with almond butter and chia seeds. It’s super easy, takes seconds to prep, and will leave you feeling nourished instead of sluggish.
3. Take a few deep breaths before meals
We’ve all been there—eating in a rush while multitasking. But taking just a few deep breaths before a meal can help your body shift into “rest and digest” mode, making it easier for you to absorb nutrients. It’s a small moment of mindfulness that can do wonders for your digestion.
You don’t have to overhaul your whole life to feel better. Small, intentional shifts make a huge difference. You deserve to feel amazing while being the supermom you are. Start with these three simple changes and see how much better you feel—not just for yourself, but for your family and your goals too.
Let’s clear up a common misconception: many moms are led to believe that gut health is something you only need to worry about when you're older or dealing with specific health conditions. But the truth is, your gut health is crucial—especially after having a baby.
Your body has just gone through a major transformation, and while you’re busy caring for your newborn, you also need to care for yourself. Gut health plays a massive role in how you recover, your energy levels, and even your mental health postpartum.
Why Gut Health Matters After Birth
- Hormone Balance After giving birth, your hormones are all over the place. Your gut helps to regulate hormone levels, which is key to balancing mood swings, reducing anxiety, and helping you feel more like yourself again. A happy gut can lead to a happier, more balanced you.
- Energy Levels If you’re feeling drained, sluggish, or just not as energized as you’d like to be, your gut health might be partly to blame. The bacteria in your gut influence how well your body absorbs nutrients from food, so if your gut isn’t functioning at its best, you may not be getting all the benefits from what you’re eating. A healthy gut helps you absorb nutrients more efficiently, giving you the energy you need to keep up with your little one.
- Boosting Your Immune System Your immune system is already under stress postpartum, and with a newborn in the house, germs are inevitable. But did you know that a huge part of your immune system is located in your gut? By nourishing your gut with probiotics and fiber-rich foods, you can help strengthen your immune system and better protect yourself from getting sick—something every new mom could use!
- Reducing Postpartum Bloating Feeling bloated and uncomfortable after birth? It could be your gut’s way of telling you it needs some extra care. When your gut bacteria are out of balance, it can lead to gas, bloating, and digestive discomfort. Incorporating gut-friendly foods like fermented veggies, yogurt, and prebiotic-rich foods can help restore balance and reduce bloating.
How to Show Your Gut Some Love
- Eat more fermented foods like yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut, and kimchi. These are packed with probiotics, which help increase the good bacteria in your gut.
- Add fiber to your diet through fruits, veggies, and whole grains. Fiber is essential for feeding the good bacteria in your gut and keeping things moving smoothly.
- Stay hydrated! Water is key for digestion and keeping your gut functioning well.
So, if you’ve been feeling off, bloated, or just not like yourself after giving birth, don’t ignore your gut health. Taking care of it now can make a world of difference in your recovery, energy levels, and overall well-being.
Show your gut some love—you deserve it!
