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When I Finally Stopped Trying to “Fix” My Hormones—and Started Supporting My Body Instead

When I Finally Stopped Trying to “Fix” My Hormones—and Started Supporting My Body Instead
For so long, I thought hormone balance had to come from something else.

Another supplement. Another fancy adaptogen. Another routine I couldn’t stick to.

But the truth? My body didn’t need more. It needed a break.

It needed blood sugar that stayed steady, meals that actually nourished, and a nervous system that wasn’t running on fumes. When I started focusing on safety instead of stress, everything shifted.

My energy came back. My mood leveled out. The bloating eased.

It wasn’t magic—it was my body finally getting what it needed to do its job. 🌿

Here’s the thing most of us don’t realize: your hormones aren’t the problem. They’re responding to what’s going on in your body. When you’re under constant stress, skipping meals, living on caffeine, or barely sleeping—your body does what it’s supposed to do. It protects you by slowing things down, holding on to energy, and shifting resources away from things like fertility, digestion, and metabolism.

That’s why the answer to hormone balance isn’t another quick fix—it’s giving your body a sense of safety.

Here’s where you can start:
✨ 1. Eat to support blood sugar balance.
Aim for protein, fiber, and healthy fats in every meal. This helps stabilize energy, reduce mood swings, and prevent those 3 p.m. crashes that send your stress hormones soaring.

✨ 2. Ditch the all-or-nothing mindset.
You don’t need a “perfect” routine to see progress. Start with small shifts—like eating within an hour of waking up, or adding a balanced afternoon snack—to show your body it can trust you to fuel it consistently.

✨ 3. Regulate your nervous system daily.
Your hormones depend on your nervous system feeling safe. Try grounding practices like deep breathing, gentle movement, sunlight, or even just slowing down before meals.

✨ 4. Prioritize rest without guilt.
Hormone health thrives on recovery. Give yourself permission to sleep more, take rest days, and say no to the things that drain you.

When you create consistency around nourishment, movement, and rest, your body naturally finds its rhythm again—without the overwhelm.

If you’re tired of chasing balance and just want to feel like yourself again, start here.

And if you’re ready for more support, be sure to give me a follow —I help women understand their bodies, balance their hormones naturally, and create simple daily rhythms that actually fit their real lives.

Because you don’t need more products—you need a plan that works with your body, not against it. 💛

How Essential Oils Became a Missing Piece in My Hormone + Energy Journey

How Essential Oils Became a Missing Piece in My Hormone + Energy Journey
Before I got pregnant, I was in the best health of my life.

I was following a protocol that supported my mitochondria (IYKYK), cooking most of my meals, sleeping well, and feeling damn good in my body.

But it didn’t start that way.

There was a time when I was constantly exhausted, my gut was a mess, and my hormones felt like an unsolvable mystery. I was doing all the things — eating clean, taking supplements, running labs — and still felt like something was off.

Then someone handed me a bottle of essential oil.

I smiled politely and thought, “Cool, another thing to smell pretty while I try to hold it together.”

But I tried it anyway.

Here’s the thing — not all oils are created equal. The ones you find at the grocery store? Let’s just say… not the same. The oils I started using were pure, therapeutic, and intentionally formulated — and they worked.

I learned that essential oils aren’t magic. But they are chemical messengers — just like your hormones. And when used correctly, they can support your body in powerful ways.

Here’s what I noticed and later confirmed through research:
✔️ They can calm your nervous system, lowering cortisol and supporting progesterone.
✔️ They can help with estrogen detox.
✔️ They can boost focus and reduce brain fog.
✔️ They can help balance mood swings throughout your cycle.

I started using them in small, intentional ways:
🧠 When I felt foggy, I reached for rosemary and peppermint.
💛 When anxiety crept in, I used bergamot and clary sage.
🌙 When I couldn’t sleep, I used cedarwood and lavender.

It wasn’t an overnight transformation — but it was a real one. Over time, as I paired these oils with proper nutrition, stress management, and mindset work, they became anchors in my healing journey.

Now, they’re part of what I teach my 1:1 and group clients — because they’re simple, effective, and actually doable for busy women who want to support their hormones and energy naturally.

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Sometimes healing doesn’t look like adding more.

Sometimes it’s about finding small, sustainable tools that bring your body back into balance — one deep breath at a time.

Just Because It’s Common… Doesn’t Mean It’s Normal

Just Because It’s Common… Doesn’t Mean It’s Normal
We’ve been told that so many of our struggles as women are just part of life.

The bloating. The exhaustion. The mood swings that hit like a wave every month.

But here’s the truth:

Just because it’s common… doesn’t mean it’s normal.

Think about it—how many times have you brushed off a symptom because everyone else seems to deal with it too?

You feel bloated every night after dinner and tell yourself it’s no big deal.

You cry for two days straight before your period and assume that’s “just hormones.”

You can’t start your day without caffeine and joke about living on coffee.

But your body isn’t trying to make your life harder.

It’s talking to you.

Those symptoms? They’re data. Tiny signals pointing to something deeper — whether that’s stress overload, a gut that’s out of balance, or hormones that need support. And when you start paying attention instead of pushing through, you open the door to actually feeling better.

The problem is, we’ve been taught to ignore our bodies.

We’ve normalized discomfort to the point that struggling has become a shared experience — almost a badge of honor.
“Of course I’m tired, I’m a mom.”
“Of course I feel off, I’m getting older.”
“Of course my mood swings are crazy, that’s what happens every month.”

No.

Those may be common, but they’re not inevitable.

You deserve energy that lasts through the day — without relying on caffeine.

You deserve calm, stable moods — not emotional whiplash.

You deserve to feel light, comfortable, and at home in your body again.

When you start seeing your symptoms as messages instead of inconveniences, everything shifts. You begin to notice patterns, make small supportive changes, and build trust with your body again. And that’s where healing starts — not from forcing perfection or following strict rules, but from understanding what your body is asking for.

So next time something feels “off,” instead of brushing it aside, pause and listen.

Your body isn’t broken — it’s brilliant.

And when you learn to tune in, you’ll realize she’s been on your side all along.

Why Nervous System Support Matters More Than “Perfect” Health Habits

Why Nervous System Support Matters More Than “Perfect” Health Habits
They talk to your gut, your brain, and your nervous system 24/7. I’m talking about your hormones—and this constant communication is why stress can throw everything off. Energy, cycles, moods, even digestion often pay the price when your nervous system is stuck in overdrive.

For years, I thought the solution was to just try harder. Eat cleaner. Take more supplements. Stick to the “perfect” routine. But the truth? No amount of kale or capsules could override the stress signals flooding my body. What I really needed was nervous system support.

When your body doesn’t feel safe, your hormones can’t do their job. Cortisol stays elevated, your sleep suffers, blood sugar dips and spikes, and your cycle can feel unpredictable or downright chaotic. It’s not because you’re failing—it’s because your nervous system is begging for calm.

So what actually helps? Here are three things that shifted everything for me:

1. Daily Walks Outside
Walking might sound too simple to matter, but it was a game-changer. Being outdoors gave me a reset that my body desperately needed. The fresh air, grounding in nature, and gentle movement helped regulate cortisol and calm my mind in a way that no supplement ever could.

2. Swapping Coffee for Matcha
I love coffee. But when my stress was already high, caffeine poured fuel on the fire. Matcha gave me a gentler lift without the jittery crash. Plus, its L-theanine content promotes calm focus—a double win for my stressed nervous system.

3. Lavender + German Chamomile Oils at Night
Sleep was another piece of the puzzle. Using calming essential oils in the evening helped signal to my body that it was safe to rest. Deeper sleep meant I woke up more resilient and better able to handle whatever stress came my way.

Here’s the biggest lesson I learned: your body doesn’t need perfection. It doesn’t need you to follow every health trend or restrict yourself into misery. What it really needs is safety. 

When your nervous system feels supported, your hormones finally have the space to function the way they’re designed to.

If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of “doing more” to fix your health, maybe it’s time to try doing less—and focusing on calm instead.

Why Your Health Matters in Every Season of Life (Even After Kids)

Why Your Health Matters in Every Season of Life (Even After Kids)
These days, life looks a little different. 😅 When a child enters your world, everything shifts—beautifully, wildly, and in ways that can sometimes leave your own health feeling like it’s on the back burner. Late nights, unpredictable schedules, and the constant juggle of responsibilities can make it seem almost impossible to focus on your body’s needs. But here’s the truth: your hormone and gut health still matter in every season of life, and they don’t have to look perfect to make a difference.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that balance doesn’t stay the same forever. What supported my body before baby is not the same as what supports me now. And that’s okay. Our bodies are designed to adapt, and the way we care for them should adapt too. Hormone balance isn’t about following rigid rules—it’s about tuning in to what your body needs today, in this moment. Sometimes that looks like a carefully planned routine, but other times it’s about finding small, practical shifts that make life feel a little lighter.

Perfection isn’t the goal here. In fact, chasing perfection often leads to more stress—which is one of the fastest ways to throw hormones and digestion off track. Instead, focus on practicality. Maybe that means keeping quick, nourishing snacks on hand so your blood sugar stays steady. Maybe it’s stepping outside for ten minutes of fresh air when the day feels overwhelming. Maybe it’s choosing rest over another task on your to-do list, knowing that your body repairs and recharges while you sleep.

Gut health and hormone health are deeply connected to how we show up in daily life. When digestion feels supported and stress feels manageable, energy is steadier, moods are more balanced, and the body can function as it was meant to. The good news? It doesn’t take an elaborate plan to get there. Even small, consistent habits can create a ripple effect. Drinking enough water, moving your body in ways that feel good, eating more whole foods, or simply practicing deep breathing can all support the foundation your hormones and gut need.

Life after kids may look nothing like the life you had before, but that doesn’t mean your well-being has to disappear from the picture. It just means finding a new rhythm. Your health matters in every season—not because it looks perfect, but because it’s what helps you feel present, energized, and capable of enjoying the life you’re building.

 
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Meet Leah Negrin

 
I am a bold, beautiful, sometimes timid, usually happy, essential oil, nutrition junkie. Although at 39 I feel as if I've had several careers over a lifetime (or at least sometimes when I look back at my resume that is what shines through). I've been a paralegal, an office manager, an administrative assistant, worked in commercial lending and have finally landed on nutrition.

My journey to nutrition started many years ago when my sister was diagnosed with celiac disease and food had to change for the family. From there, along my own health journey I’ve helped people not only figure out what to eat but how to do it so that it can work for them sustainably. For almost seven years I’ve been counseling people on their nutrition and weight loss journeys. 

Finally getting some sunshine in Southern California *Photo credit  Brittany Hassett 

I am knowledgeable about what purpose food serves your body and I focus on finding sustainable options when it comes to food; this also led to my love of essential oils. I had the opportunity to attend a workshop where a registered dietitian spoke about using essential oils in her practice to help her patients. I was floored. I knew that #plantsheal but I didn't realize that others in the 'conventional' medical community thought that as well!! Learning that it was possible to incorporate these magical little bottles gave me a huge sense of hope.


Alina, myself and Caitlin (oily bffs) *Photo credit Anne Negrin

 
As I learned more about these oils I was diagnosed with increased intestinal permeability or as many of us know it, leaky gut. Leaky gut has been around for quite awhile but many of us are just learning what this is or why this is even more common these days than ever before. Many issues can be related to leaky gut including autoimmune diseases. Receiving this diagnosis just led me down a path further to learn about nutrition and how to best serve my body and take care of myself.


Enjoying a vegan ice cream cone in Budapest! *Photo credit to Michelle Owen 

Since birthing our sweet baby boy at home earlier this year I’ve been incredibly passionate about helping other women too who are pregnant and new mothers with their nutrition. Eating healthy for your pregnant body and your postpartum self is a game changer for both mother and baby.

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