Once that sweet little baby enters your world, everything shifts. Your Friday nights that were once about Netflix or going out look a lot more like cuddles, diapers, and early bedtimes. The clothes you used to rock? They’ve likely been traded for something a bit more... mom-friendly (hello, leggings).
But you know what hasn’t changed for me? My love for food. 🍲
I’ve always had this passion for nourishing my body and finding joy in the kitchen. And now, as a mom, that love has only deepened. I realize more than ever how important it is to fuel my body with nutritious, wholesome foods. After all, I need the energy to keep up with my little guy!
What’s even more special is that I get to share this love for food with him. Cooking together has become one of our favorite activities. Sure, it’s messy, and sometimes things don’t go as planned (I’ve learned that toddlers and flour don’t always mix well). But it’s fun, it’s bonding, and we both enjoy it.
We love trying new recipes, from simple breakfasts to creative snacks, and I can’t tell you how rewarding it is to watch him get excited about food. There’s something magical about teaching your child the importance of nourishing their body—watching them explore new flavors and textures while building memories together in the kitchen.
So, while motherhood has changed nearly everything about my life, my love for food has stayed constant. And now, I get to experience that joy in a new way—through the eyes of my little one. Whether we’re making a homemade smoothie or baking our favorite protein snacks, these moments are some of my favorites.
Motherhood changes you, but it also adds so many beautiful layers. And for me, one of those layers is sharing my love for good food with the little person I love most.
Motherhood can be lonely.
There, I said it.
Even with people around who love you—your partner, family, friends—somehow, it can still feel isolating. It's not constant, but there are those moments, like in the middle of the night when you’re up for the fourth time, and you think to yourself, "How am I doing this again?"
Or maybe it’s when you finally carve out a second for yourself, but instead of soaking in that precious ‘me time,’ you’re tending to your little one’s needs. As much as we love our children, the relentless demands of motherhood can make us feel like we’re on an island, alone.
The truth is, women thrive in community. We need a support system—people who understand, who can lift us up when we're down, and who won’t judge us for feeling overwhelmed. And who better to understand the rollercoaster of motherhood than other moms? They get it because they’re living it too.
That’s why I’m so passionate about creating a space designed just for us—a community where we can connect, share, and support one another through this incredible, challenging, exhausting, and beautiful journey. Whether you’re navigating the early days of motherhood, juggling work and family, or trying to prioritize your own health amidst the chaos, this community is here for you.
In this space, there’s no judgment, no competition, just real women supporting each other. We’ll talk about everything from our health and wellness to the struggles and joys of being a mom. This is your place to be heard, to ask questions, to share advice, and to simply be yourself.
Because, as much as we love our little ones, we need to take care of ourselves too. We need to feel connected, supported, and understood. And most importantly, we need to remember that we’re not alone.
So, whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned pro, or somewhere in between, I invite you to join us. Let’s lift each other up, celebrate our wins, and be there for one another when things get tough. Because together, we can thrive in this journey called motherhood.
I did NOT want to give birth in the hospital.
It wasn't always like this for me. I used to think, “Sign me up for anything that removes all pain and hurries this up. Bonus for instant pre-baby body!” Obviously, some of that is just not really possible, and other aspects might be for certain women, BUT...
The reason I decided against it was because nearly 60% of women at hospital births receive at least one medical intervention during labor, such as induction, epidural anesthesia, or C-section, even though many of these interventions are not always medically necessary. This high rate of intervention can often lead to a cascade of additional procedures and potential complications, making the birthing process more medicalized than it might need to be.
Why does this matter? For me, it was about wanting to have more control over my birthing experience. I wanted to avoid unnecessary interventions that might complicate things further. I wanted a birth that felt natural, empowering, and tailored to my body’s needs.
Here’s the deal: every single body is different, but there are some fairly compelling numbers when it comes to the birthing system. For instance, women who have continuous support during labor, such as a midwife or doula, are less likely to need pain medication or other interventions. They also report a higher satisfaction with their birth experience.
Choosing not to give birth in a hospital was about staying empowered, staying informed, and advocating for the birth experience I deserved. Here are a few tips if you’re considering a similar path:
- Do Your Research: Understand the pros and cons of hospital births versus home or birthing center options. Look at the statistics and decide what feels right for you.
- Find a Supportive Team: Whether it’s a midwife, doula, or supportive family members, having a team that respects your birth plan is crucial.
- Prepare for Flexibility: While it’s great to have a plan, remember that birth can be unpredictable. Be open to changes if they’re truly necessary for your and your baby’s health.
- Trust Your Body: Your body was made for this. Trust in its ability to birth your baby. Stay in tune with what feels right for you.
Every birth experience is unique, and what works for one person might not work for another. The key is to stay informed and make the choices that are best for you and your baby.
Short story, stay empowered, stay informed, and advocate for the birth experience you deserve.
Your birthing experience is just that—yours. Make it a story you’ll look back on with pride and empowerment. You’ve got this!
The postpartum experience is a wild ride, and there's one aspect that often gets overlooked: that first bleed after having a baby. It’s tricky.
For me, I was blessed with my cycle returning after about eight months and staying very regular ever since. But I know that’s not everyone’s story. There are so many factors that influence when your period will return postpartum!
Let’s break it down:
- Hormones and Breastfeeding: Your period might not come back right away, especially if you’re breastfeeding. Lactation suppresses the hormones that trigger ovulation, which can delay the return of your menstrual cycle.
- Changes in Your Cycle: When your period does return, it might be different than it was before. Heavier, lighter, longer, shorter—your body is readjusting. The changes are typically temporary, but it’s a good idea to keep an eye on them.
- Track Your Cycle: Keeping track of your cycle is crucial. Not only does it help you understand what’s happening with your body, but it also allows you to discuss any concerns with your doctor effectively.
Let’s be real—there are a lot of emotions around this. Depending on when your cycle returns, you might have been without a bleed for almost two years! That’s a long time, and getting back into the monthly flow (pun intended) with a little one attached to you can look very different.
Before my baby, I was in tune with my cycle. I knew exactly what phase I was in and supported my body with the right foods, essential oils, specific movements, and more. Now? Without my app to help me track, I’d be lost.
So, here’s what I’m focusing on to get back on track:
- Using a Cycle Tracking App: This is a lifesaver. It helps me keep tabs on where I am in my cycle and what my body needs at each phase.
- Supporting My Body: I’m getting back into the rhythm of eating foods that support my cycle, using essential oils, and engaging in the right kind of movement for each phase.
- Self-Care and Awareness: Understanding these aspects of my cycle helps me navigate postpartum recovery with more confidence and clarity.
Remember, everyone’s journey is unique, and it’s okay if yours doesn’t look like anyone else’s. The important thing is to listen to your body and give yourself grace as you navigate this new chapter.
Having a little one is seriously such a blessing, and I’m beyond grateful for him every single day. But let’s be real—parenthood is an emotional rollercoaster. Some days, everything clicks, and it’s all sunshine and rainbows. Other days, it feels like you’re stuck in the middle of a storm with no umbrella. And then there are those days when it’s both amazing and rough at the same time.
It's okay to admit that sometimes having time alone is all you want. That doesn’t mean you don’t love your child. It means you’re human, and you're dealing with a whole new level of responsibility. Parenting can be exhausting, exhilarating, overwhelming, and joyful—all at once.
If you’ve been finding it hard to navigate these big feelings, you’re not alone. It’s not always easy to dive into these emotions when you’re just trying to get through the day. But it’s important to find ways to embrace them without losing it. Here are three strategies that I’ve found helpful:
Whether it’s a stroll through a park, a hike in the woods, or a walk along the beach, being outside can do wonders for your mood. The fresh air, the sounds of birds, the rustling of leaves—all of it can help you reset. I often pair this with a walk or a run, because getting your body moving is another great way to boost those feel-good vibes.
Music has a unique ability to evoke emotions and transport us to different places and times. If you’re feeling down or overwhelmed, put on your favorite song and let it work its magic. Blast it in your living room and have a dance party. Your little one will love it, and so will you. The energy from the music can lift your spirits and give you that extra push to get through the day.
Food is more than just fuel—it’s a way to nourish both your body and soul. When you’re busy with a baby, it’s easy to grab whatever’s convenient, but taking the time to make a meal or a snack that you actually enjoy can be a game-changer. Choose something that tastes good and makes you feel good. Maybe it’s a healthy salad with all your favorite toppings or a warm bowl of soup on a chilly day. Whatever it is, savor each bite and let yourself enjoy the moment.
Remember, you don’t have to go through this journey alone. Share your struggles and victories with other parents, and lean on your support system. And when things get tough, know that it’s okay to take a step back, breathe, and try one of these strategies. Parenthood is a wild ride, but with a little patience and a lot of love, you’ve got this.
