Sleep can feel like a distant memory once you become a mom, right? Between night feedings, bedtime routines, and the mental load of juggling everything, getting a good night’s sleep is easier said than done. It’s like you’re always “on,” even when the rest of the house is quiet. The challenge is real!
But here’s the thing—sleep is everything when it comes to surviving and thriving through motherhood. It’s key to your patience, your energy, and your overall well-being. Without it, the days can feel longer, the tantrums harder, and the mental load heavier. I totally get it.
Using essential oils has been a gentle, natural way to bring more calm and relaxation into my life, especially when sleep feels out of reach. Here are a few of my go-to oils that have helped me (and countless other moms) unwind and get a better night's rest:
🌸 Lavender
It’s the classic, go-to oil for sleep and relaxation and for good reason! The scent of lavender can help soothe your mind and body after a hectic day of mom life. You can diffuse it, add a few drops to your bath, or even mix it with water to create a calming pillow spray. Lavender is all about creating a peaceful vibe that helps you drift off.
🌱 Frankincense
Frankincense might sound fancy, but it’s a real powerhouse when it comes to grounding your mind and body. This oil has calming properties that are perfect for winding down at the end of the day. I love mixing it with a carrier oil (like coconut or jojoba) and applying it to my wrists or temples before bed. It feels like a little moment of self-care that helps me release the tension from the day.
⭐️ Believe Oil
Believe oil is one of my personal favorites, especially when it comes to mental health. Motherhood can be so rewarding, but let’s be real; it’s also tough. There’s a lot more open conversation around postpartum mental health now than there used to be, which is amazing. I apply Believe oil when I need a boost, and it always brings me a sense of joy and calm, like I’m tapping into the best version of myself.
If you’re looking for the ultimate sleep blend, try combining lavender and frankincense in your diffuser before bed. The two scents together create the perfect balance of relaxation and grounding energy.
Motherhood is busy, and sleep can feel elusive, but prioritizing rest is so important. You deserve it, and trust me, getting good sleep will make all the difference in how you show up for yourself and your family.
How many times have you stood in front of the fridge, waiting for dinner inspiration to hit, only to give up and call for takeout? It’s one of those “quick fixes” that feels like it’s solving the problem in the moment but usually just adds to the chaos. Enter meal planning—your not-so-secret weapon to cutting down on stress and keeping your family on track, especially with protein-packed meals.
We've all been there: that dreaded “What’s for dinner?” moment. It's stressful and draining, especially after a long day. But with meal planning, you have a game plan in place. No more last-minute pizza orders or throwing together random snacks and calling it dinner. Instead, you're serving balanced, protein-packed meals that keep everyone full and ready to handle whatever life throws at them.
Here’s why protein is the real MVP in meal planning: It keeps you satisfied longer, helps stabilize blood sugar, and keeps those mid-afternoon energy crashes at bay. Plus, protein helps with muscle repair and even boosts your metabolism. So, while you’re tackling everything on your to-do list, your body is getting the fuel it needs to keep going strong.
The real magic of meal planning? It takes the guesswork out of your evenings. Studies show that consistent meal planning leads to healthier food choices and less stress. When you already know what’s for dinner, you free up your mental space for more important things—like actually enjoying time with your family instead of scrambling in the kitchen.
So, if you’re ready to say goodbye to the daily dinner drama and simplify your life, grab a copy of my Easy Protein Recipes for Busy Families cookbook here. It's packed with easy, delicious meals that will keep your family happy and your stress levels low. Let meal planning be the solution that saves your sanity.
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Looking for a quick, nutritious lunch that even your picky eaters will love? This Broccoli, Edamame & Chickpea Pasta Salad is packed with plant-based protein and fresh veggies, making it a perfect go-to meal for busy days. Whether you're meal prepping for the week or need a healthy side dish, this salad has you covered—wholesome, satisfying, and ready in minutes!
Ingredients:
- 4 ozs Chickpea Pasta (dry)
- 1 cup Broccoli (cut into florets)
- 2 tbsps Extra Virgin Olive Oil
- 1 tbsp Apple Cider Vinegar
- 1 tsp Italian Seasoning
- 1 tbsp Hemp Seeds
- 1 tbsp Nutritional Yeast
- 1 cup Frozen Edamame (thawed)
- 1/2 Cucumber (medium, sliced)
- Sea Salt & Black Pepper (to taste)
- 1 tsp Garlic Powder (I did not measure how much garlic powder I used, just use as much as you'd like!)
Instructions:
- Cook the pasta according to package directions. Add the broccoli for the two last minutes of cooking.
- In a large bowl, combine the remaining ingredients. Add the pasta and broccoli and season with salt and pepper to taste. Toss well to coat.
- Serve immediately or chill in the refrigerator for 30 minutes. Enjoy!
As much as we wish we could snap back to feeling 100% overnight, the truth is, your body just went through a lot and recovery takes time. From hormones balancing out to your body adjusting physically, postpartum healing is a journey. It’s not something we can (or should!) rush through.
I get it.... you’re probably feeling the pressure to “bounce back” and get back to your pre-baby self. Whether it’s your energy, your body, or even your mindset, there’s this invisible (and sometimes very visible) expectation to hurry up and recover.
But let’s stop and think about what your body has just accomplished. You’ve just grown and brought life into the world. That’s no small feat, and it’s going to take some time for your body to adjust to this new chapter.
The Hormonal Rollercoaster
If you’re feeling all over the place emotionally, you’re not alone. After giving birth, your hormones are trying to recalibrate. This hormonal shift can bring on a whirlwind of emotions—from happy to tears to overwhelm—all within the span of an hour. Be kind to yourself through this transition. It’s totally normal to feel this way, and the last thing you need is to feel guilty about it.
Physical Recovery
Beyond the emotional rollercoaster, your body is healing physically. Whether you had a vaginal delivery or a c-section, your body is working hard to repair itself. From healing tissues to regaining strength, this doesn’t happen overnight. Give yourself permission to rest, listen to your body, and not feel like you need to be doing all the things just yet.
Give Yourself Grace
The most important thing you can do during this time is to give yourself grace. Healing is not linear, and it looks different for everyone. Some days you might feel like you’re on top of the world, and other days, even brushing your teeth feels like a win. And that’s okay. Take it one day at a time, and remind yourself that you’re doing amazing.
Your body is incredible for what it’s just done, and it deserves all the love and patience in the world. Recovery is not a race, and there’s no gold medal for who heals the fastest. What’s most important is taking care of yourself so you can be the best version of you—for both yourself and your new little one.
Take your time, mama. You’ve got this.
Whenever I think of this supplement I think of myself as a warrior going in and fighting those germs that have taken up residence in my body. 💪
This happens, we're human and around others that have germs in them too.
There are so many different thoughts around germ theory and how that actually is for our body, but alas we're not going to go down that road.
Germs, like bacteria and viruses, enter the body through the skin, mouth, or respiratory system, where they can multiply and cause infections. The immune system recognizes these harmful invaders and responds by producing white blood cells and antibodies to attack and destroy them.
Through this defense mechanism, the immune system helps keep the body healthy by neutralizing the germs and preventing illness. In order to support my immune system I love to pop some Inner Defense and help those white blood cells and antibodies do their job 👏 as it strengthens the body’s natural defenses, supports healthy respiratory function, and provides immune support with the powerful combination of essential oils like Oregano, Thyme, and Thieves.
You can absolutely go looking for some more in-depth information around the oils that are present in the Thieves blend (in fact I encourage it as there are so many fun studies that discuss how each can help your body systems. You can do that by clicking here!
Before learning about Inner Defense (or even other supplements that can help your immune system) I thought that Emergen-C thing was a good thing to take, to help my body fight off the germs. However, not the case! In fact, this little packet (that you can find at the gas station, which might be your first clue to quality) has things like Fructose, Maltodextrin, Citric Acid and Malic Acid!
1. **Fructose**: Excessive consumption of fructose, especially from processed foods, can lead to insulin resistance and contribute to the development of fatty liver disease and metabolic disorders.
2. **Maltodextrin**: This highly processed carbohydrate has a high glycemic index, which can spike blood sugar levels and contribute to insulin resistance, increasing the risk of diabetes.
3. **Citric Acid**: While naturally occurring in fruits, synthetic citric acid used in processed foods can sometimes cause digestive discomfort or trigger inflammation in individuals sensitive to it.
4. **Malic Acid**: In large amounts, malic acid, often used as a flavor enhancer in processed foods, may cause digestive issues like stomach irritation or upset, especially for sensitive individuals.
